The Book Everyone Needs But Few Reach For…... Until You Don’t Know What to Say
Inside these 280 pages, you’ll discover the words that soothe broken hearts — and the ones to avoid when silence feels safer.
This guide will give you the confidence to show up with empathy, presence, and language that truly comforts.
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Have You Been Left Speechless — Right When You Were Needed Most?
Does this sound familiar?
Someone you love is suffering, and you don’t know what to say.
You avoid bringing it up — afraid you’ll make things worse.
You spoke with the best intentions… and saw how you hurt them more.
People in grief pull away from you because they don’t know how you can help
The Emotional Cost Is Too High
Every avoided conversation, every awkward silence, and every well-meaning phrase creates deeper wounds in hearts that are already broken.
“The most painful thing isn’t the loss itself — it’s feeling completely alone in your grief because no one knows how to be with you in it.”
— Common reflection in grief support groups
The Silent Cost of Not Knowing What to Say
Even now — while you’re reading this — hearts are breaking not from lack of love, but from a lack of the right words.
Right Now, Somewhere...
A widow feels more alone because someone told her, “You’ll get over this.”
A father who lost his child avoids family gatherings — everyone’s “walking on eggshells.”
A grieving teen isolates because adults keep saying, “Be strong.”
A family is falling apart because no one knows how to talk about their loved one’s suicide.
The Questions That Haunt Us...
How many relationships have been lost due to the wrong words?
How many healing moments were missed because of fear and silence?
How many suffer alone simply because others don’t know how to help?
Have you ever held back - not because you didn´t care, but because you didn´t know what to say?
The Guide That Finally Shows You Exactly What to Say — and What to Never Say — When Someone Is Grieving
After walking through the darkest season of my life, following my husband’s death by suicide,
I searched for the words that could offer true comfort — and discovered how rarely we’re ever taught what to say.
So I wrote the guide I wish I had…
And now, as a certified Emotion Code Practitioner, I’ve supported women in finding healing — and the confidence to say the right thing when it matters most.
My Journey from Devastation to Purpose
In 2016, my world shattered when my husband died by suicide.
Like you might feel now, I was lost, alone, and with no purpose.
Then I discovered the power of Emotion Code therapy.
After my own healing, I became certified — so I could walk with others.
Since then, I’ve helped women through their own grief journeys.
You don’t have to walk this path alone.
Why This Isn’t Just Another Grief Book
280
Pages of life-changing guidance
27
Deeply thoughtful chapters
5
Comprehensive sections to guide you from quiet hesitation to compassionate confidence — helping you move from not knowing what to say, to meeting grief with understanding and heart.
Written by a Certified Emotion Code Practitioner
This is the guide I wish I had — a deeply comprehensive resource to help you support others through grief, with presence and compassion."
280 pages of real-world guidance to transform the way you show up for those in pain.
“This book educated me on so many topics related to grief. I appreciated how the author shared so much detail about her own experiences and dealing with grief. It’s definitely worth reading!”
— Eric H., 58 years
What Makes This Book Truly Different
Other Books Give You General Advice...
“Be supportive” — but never show you how
Filled with theories, not real - life tools
Avoid “hard topics” like suicide grief
Focus only on emotions — not the whole person
Often written by people who haven’t lived the loss
This Book Gives You the Exact Words
Real phrases you can use (and those to avoid)
Grounded in both lived experience + professional certification
Courageously addresses suicide, stigma, and silence
Supports healing in mind, body, and spirit
Written by someone who’s been exactly where you are
Written by Someone Who Has Been There
This isn’t just knowledge — it’s lived truth.
Hard-earned wisdom shaped by the deepest loss and guided by years of healing work.
Personal Lived Experience
Written by Someone Who’s Been There
Professional Training
This isn’t just knowledge — it’s lived truth.
Real Results
Hard-earned wisdom shaped by the deepest loss and guided by years of healing work.
Making a Difference, One Life at a Time Every session, every page — rooted in real stories and real healing.
What You’ll Achieve with This Book
Real, lasting transformation in how you connect with others’ pain
Immediate Confidence
Approach people in pain knowing exactly what to say and how to truly show up.
Inner Peace
No more second-guessing or worrying if your words might do more harm than good.
Exact Words for Any Situation
Whether it’s suicide, child loss, or unexpected death — you’ll have the right phrases when they matter most.
Enhanced Professional Skills
If you work in healthcare, education, or therapy, this will deepen your impact and emotional intelligence.
Deeper Relationships
When people trust you with their deepest grief, the bond becomes unshakable.
Stronger Family Bonds
Guide your children and loved ones through difficult seasons with wisdom, calm, and care
Clear Understanding
Let go of common grief myths and discover what truly brings comfort, healing and presence.
Renewed Sense of Purpose
Transform your own pain into meaningful service — and become a steady source of strength for others.
The Real Transformation
You’ll go from feeling helpless around grief…
to becoming the person others turn to in their darkest moments.
You won’t just be present - You’ll be the bridge between pain and healing.
Don't Just Take My Word For It
See what readers are saying about their transformation
A heartfelt and poignant personal journey through love, loss, and grief - and the path toward recovery and growth. Damaris opens a window into her profound personal loss, offering not only her story but also practical tools to help readers navigate their own grief. Written with deep love and empathy, this book serves as a compassionate guide for anyone facing the challenges of loss.
— Jill H.
For anyone who has suffered a great loss, the Voices of Empathy by Damaris is a great resource for helping find the words needed to give your loved ones and friends the support care and compassion that they need.
Mary Therese Y. — Nurse
Voices of Empathy by Damaris Hernandez is a well written book to guide anyone wit the right words regarding loss and grieving.
Bob Y. — 54 years old.
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Step Empathy Framework Guiding you from silence to supportive presence
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Voice that will change the way you support grief forever
How Much Is Never Hurting Someone You Love Again Worth?
Peace of Mind
Priceless peace of mind knowing your words will help — not harm — someone you love in their darkest moment
If you took a specialized course
$500–$1,000
Professional grief communication training
If you hired a communication course
$300+
Per session — and still might not get what to say in a moment of loss
But You Don’t Need Any of That.
Everything you need is right here — in one book — for just:
Unconditional 30-Day Guarantee
If this book doesn’t radically improve how you show up for those in grief, I’ll refund every penny — no questions, no guilt, no problem.
Hello, I'm Damaris — Your Companion on the Healing Journey
But in the midst of that darkness, I discovered something life-changing:
Our bodies carry emotions we were never meant to hold forever. And when those trapped emotions are gently released, healing becomes possible. Through Emotion Code therapy, I found a path back to meaning, peace, and purpose.
After walking that path myself, I became certified to guide others — especially women navigating grief, trauma, and suicide loss.
If you’re here, know this:
You’re not alone in your pain. I see you. I hear you.
And I’m here to support you as you reconnect with your strength, rediscover your light, and rebuild your life — one gentle step at a time.
Certified Emotion Code Practitioner
Personal Suicide Loss Experience
Published Author
Guiding Women One Heart at a Time
Damaris Hernández
Don’t Wait Until It’s Too Late
While you hesitate, someone is suffering.
While you think about it, a relationship is being damaged.
While you wait, you're missing opportunities to heal — or to be the one who helps.
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280 pages of life-changing wisdom
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